Pope Francis' great Christmas gift to us all

The pope continues, analogizing his experience thus:

So an uprooting of that kind, when they send you off the soccer field and put you on the bench, turns everything around. Your habits, your reflexive behaviors, the reference points of your existence that take shape over time — all these get turned on their head, and you have to learn to live life anew, to take up arms again.

Is there anything like this degree of self-revelation in the writings of an incumbent pontiff? I can't think of any.

Yet the lessons he shares from the experience seem very un-modern but spot on: the idea that he needed to be purified, that somehow he could not have accomplished that purification on his own, it had to be imposed, and that he must always stay vigilant lest the devil come with a "second tempting," which he identifies with "polite demons." This passage should cut to the quick any Christian who has any degree of success in their life.

So should his conclusion: "These were my main personal Covids. What I learned was that you suffer a lot, but if you allow it to change you, you come out better. But if you dig in, you come out worse."

The other section in the book that I should like to call attention to is where the Holy Father distinguishes between contradictions and what he calls "contrapositions." This comes after he has characterized, with typical incisiveness, the weight of polarization that besets the political life of the West, and that infects the church as well:

As the public arena has become increasingly dominated by the beleaguered self — anxious, controlling, quick to take offense, self-justifying — our society risks becoming ever more divided and fragmented. The Church is not immune to this contagion. How do we act in contexts of tribal division when our politics, our society, our media seem at times to be one long shouting match, in which opponents seek to "cancel" each other in a game of power? The growing verbal violence reflects a fragility of selfhood, a loss of roots, in which security is found in discrediting others through narratives that let us feel righteous and give us reasons for silencing others. The absence of sincere dialogue in our public culture makes it ever harder to generate a shared horizon toward which we can all move forward together.

Too often the leaders of the Catholic Church sound pie-in-the-sky when they discuss how politics should change, but Francis is always very down-to-earth. He writes that polarization "has a spiritual root" and that "it is born in the heart" not in the media. He counsels silence as the antidote to the "labyrinth of accusation and counteraccusation," to allow the devil to reveal himself.

This is not easy, but Francis has shown us the way: When disgraced former nuncio Carlo Maria Viganò first launched his attack on the pope, hours before he knew Francis would be holding a press conference, the pope did not engage the accusations but let them speak for themselves.

Dialogue and new thinking are the only means to transcend the divisions of our time, the pope writes, and invoking the thought of theologian Romano Guardini, about whom the future pope began but never finished a dissertation, he argues that:

A contraposition involves two poles in tension, pulling away from each other: horizon/limit, local/global, whole/part, and so on. These are contrapositions because they are opposites that nonetheless interact in a fruitful, creative tension. … To see contrapositions as contradictions is the result of mediocre thinking that takes us away from reality. The bad spirit — the spirit of conflict, which undermines dialogue and fraternity — turns contrapositions into contradictions, demanding we choose, and reducing reality to simple binaries. This is what ideologies and unscrupulous politicians do.

The antidote is dialogue, learning about the wisdom that resides in the heart of those with whom we disagree, and seeking a deeper synthesis beyond the surface disagreements. It requires the building up of trust and mutual respect. It requires mutual learning. Eventually, "the solution to an intractable problem comes in ways that are unexpected and unforeseen, the result of a new and greater creativity released, as it were, from the outside."

The pope uses the word "overflow," rich with biblical resonance. "Such overflows of love happen, above all, at the crossroads of life, at moments of openness, fragility, and humility, when the ocean of His love bursts the dams of out self-sufficiency and so allows for a new imagination of the possible."

What does this political vision have to do with Christmas? In the beautiful hymn "Hark the Herald Angels Sing," we affirm the significance of Christmas thus: "peace on earth, and mercy mild, God and sinners reconciled."

In this new book, in page after page, Francis helps show how to spread peace on earth, how to bring mercy into our human relations, how to be reconciled with God and with one another. The Holy Father helps us to become more ready to receive the gift of grace offered us by the Christ child. He encourages us to stretch, and offers consoling thoughts when we fall. He reminds of the manifold ways grace continues to operate in our fallen world. The pope shows us how to help heal our broken world.

There is much else in this book that I could commend. Reading this book will not make you feel an ounce of self-satisfaction. It is not warm and fuzzy. But it invites us to recognize the grace of the Incarnation, the grace of the season, the grace of Christmas. And to seize it.