Catholic college building maternity home

Jun. 23, 2011

BELMONT, N.C. -- Belmont Abbey College broke ground June 20 on a campus pregnancy and aftercare maternity home called Room at the Inn.

The project's organizers say the center is the first college-based maternity center in the nation.

The 10,000-square-foot maternity home will be located on four acres donated by the Benedictine monks at Belmont Abbey. The facility is adjacent to Belmont Abbey monastery and the campus of Belmont Abbey College.

Room at the Inn, an initiative of a nonprofit maternity and aftercare center of the same name based in Charlotte, will have two residential wings, one for maternity and one for aftercare, and will be able to house up to 15 mothers, 15 infants and eight toddlers for free for up to two years. Each mother will have a private bedroom and bathroom and share the kitchen, dining room and laundry room with other residents. Administrative and counseling offices and quarters for residential managers also will be on site.

Staff and volunteers at Room at the Inn in Charlotte have long dreamed of a place where college-age pregnant women could find shelter for themselves and their children while finishing their studies.

Participants don't have to be Catholic or Christian or students at Belmont Abbey College to be accepted. They are required to be in school, adhere to a curfew, submit goal sheets and take classes in life skills, parenting, cooking, meal planning, financial planning and nondenominational Bible study, among others. In exchange, they receive free room and board and counseling and supplies they need for their babies, such as car seats, clothes and furniture.

Abbot Placid Solari of Belmont Abbey monastery offered the opening prayer at the groundbreaking ceremony. Among the guests was Serrin Foster, president of Feminists for Life.

Jeannie Wray, executive director of Room at the Inn, told the crowd that the center was proof of "the Holy Spirit in action."

"How else could we explain the willingness a group of men to provide property to underpin this fantastic new facility?" she asked. "What would inspire national pro-life leaders to travel from so far away to be part of its beginning? ... Why would a fraternal order of men declare themselves providers for young women who will never be able to thank them?"

"There is no other explanation -- it is the work of God," she concluded.

Bishop Peter J. Jugis of Charlotte then led the prayer of blessing for the new home before sprinkling the site with holy water.

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"The work we are beginning today should enliven our faith and make us grateful," Bishop Jugis said. "We know the familiar words of the psalm, 'If the Lord does not build the house, in vain do we labor.' Whenever we look to the interests of our neighbor or our community and serve them, we are in a sense God's own co-workers."

So far, $2.2 million of the $3 million needed to fully fund the project has been raised by donations from private individuals and groups such as the Knights of Columbus of North Carolina, who have pledged to raise $1 million for the new maternity home.

Father Frank Pavone, national director of Priests for Life, who spoke at the groundbreaking ceremony, described the center as "a witness to the entire church about what we need to do as a church."

"This is a perfect example of the church collaborating with independent organizations who are working to provide alternatives to abortion. It tells us something about who the church is and who we are supposed to be as the people of life."

The priest also said the center should be a model for the rest of the country. "Every Catholic campus, every parish, every Catholic school, needs to be the place of first resort. When a young woman or a man feels that a new baby in their life is throwing everything out of control, they need to see that the church is the anchor, the place they can go to find help for themselves and their child."

William Thierfelder, president of Belmont Abbey College, said he hoped the home would help students understand what it means to put their faith into action.

"The students who live on this campus will get to see the reality, get to see that there are options," he said.

I think the concept is good

I think the concept is good since the homes for un-wed mothers seem to have disappeared. But college age women needing to complete their studies? If they are college age, then they are adults. These homes were usually for teenage girls. With teenage girls you could talk about a "mistake" but with adult women? I don't think so!

Perhaps as adults they should have acted more responsibly in the first place. And now someone will subsidize their education? The maternity home should provide a nursery & then all these women can go out pounding the pavement looking for a job to support their kid!

This is the kind of attitude

This is the kind of attitude that sends women who might otherwise not abort to a place where they might exercise that choice. That choice may not be her preferred one, and this I call an absence of choice. I applaud this place as a new way to offer a meaningful choice and help for a woman in this situation.

You do not know what might send a woman here except pregnancy. Maybe she was married but abused. Maybe she was raped but she chooses to bring the pregnancy to term (there are some women who so choose). Attitudes such as those expressed here do nothing but poison the general environment and create the very circumstances which encourage women to choose an abortion when it might not be what they might otherwise choose.

My only hope would be that it would not become a "crisis pregnancy center" where disinformation would be offered. It sounds like it is too good of an idea to pollute with that kind of concept.

--Andy Jo--

Paulte, your comment started

Paulte, your comment started off beautifully,but then deviated into arrogance. I assume you are male as I am. Since neither of us will ever be unwed mothers, I suggest that neither of us should comment negatively on programs to help these young women. Would you rather see them go and get abortions?

I think this is wonderful.

I think this is wonderful. The Church would be far better served to provide unwed mother homes and adoption services, than fighting so hard against Roe v Wade. Real live would be saved that way; real abortions avoided.

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