When ideas catch fire

As a young woman studying religion in college, my friend and I traveled to hear Mary Daly speak in the late 1990s. After the lecture, I took a picture of my friend leaping high and holding a bumper sticker touting Mary’s memorable phrase: “Sin Big.” I don’t recall much of the specific words that I heard that evening beyond those, but I remember the idea: women mattered.

In a culture where ideas often encourage women’s soul-shrinking, Mary Daly called women to live large. Her famous phrase “sin big” came from her study of the word “sin” whose etymology has roots in the word “to be.” As such, Mary’s theology called women to be big; to sin against or break through patriarchal ideological and material barriers that do not support women’s -- or men’s -- lives.

The beauty of a brilliant idea is that it does not remain one. It is transformed into flesh and bone and breath. People try on an idea and, if it does them justice, will wear it forever. It becomes part of them and their living.

Since Mary Daly’s death, many obituaries in news outlets ranging from The New York Times to The Associated Press have remarked on her intellectual contributions. Last week, The Wall Street Journal posted a guest op-ed titled, "As the Flame of Catholic Dissent Dies Out." Its author made the mistake of assuming that ideas die with the person who sparked them, instead of living on in the people who believe them.

I do not believe the flame of theological dissent is dying out. Whether it is Martin Luther King, Jr. -- whose life we commemorate this week -- or Mary Daly, theological dissent breaks through our numbed collective consciousness. A groundbreaking idea can open for us a space or a new discourse in which we are able to dream big and see ourselves as God sees us. A new idea elevates us, as Martin Luther King, Jr. suggested, and allows us to glimpse the Promised Land as we never have before.

Feminist theology -- and its sister theologies of Asian, eco-feminist, mujerista and womanist theologies to name a few -- have done just that. Once fledgling ideas bound into paperback books, they have since helped us lift ourselves out of a consciousness rooted in gender inequality. Women and men have been freed to live our new ideas in classrooms, churches, bedrooms and boardrooms. Feminist theology helped ignite a movement that transforms the way we live and the way we pray; the way we see ourselves, one another and even God.

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To the author of The Wall Street Journal article, I humbly offer the fact that I am but one among thousands of young Christian women and men who do not permit the flames of theological dissent to be extinguished. We are here tending the fires of hope. We spend our days putting out the fires of sexism and racism and homophobia. And by night we carry the kindling of justice and spirituality in our hands.

As young Catholics, we are indebted to our theological forebears, like Mary Daly, who helped us to understand that God created us equal -- equal in gender, race and more. We may not embrace everything about a person and their writings, but in some way we have been transformed by a key idea that opened up new ways of thinking. And, in turn, we hope to transform what we can of our church and society. This is what happens when an idea catches fire. It helps us illuminate the world.

Nicole Sotelo is the author of Women Healing from Abuse: Meditations for Finding Peace, published by Paulist Press, and coordinates www.WomenHealing.com. A graduate of Harvard Divinity School, she currently works at Call To Action.

"we hope to transform what we

"we hope to transform what we can of our church"

This sentence stuck out at me and I would like to address it. I think that we should remember what Thomas Merton, in the Ascent to Truth, wrote. He said to remember that neither theologians nor saints create the Church, it is the Church that creates them.

Theologians have a duty to better explain and gain a deeper understanding of the truths of Catholic doctrines. Yet we must be careful of getting a "We are the Church" sort of mentality. Yes, we are members of the Church, the body of Christ. However, this is along with all of the deceased members of the faith.

The Church is always in need of reform. Yet this can not be viewed as a mere jetissoning of doctrines we don't like or are inconvenient for us. There are spiritual, moral and intellectual reforms throughout Church history. Yet the issues I take with Mary Daly is that she hated the Church. I don't see why she should be honored in the manner she has been. I confess to never having read anything Daly has written. Yet looking at some of her quotes ("come let us ignore Him"-reference to Jesus and a parody of "Come let us Adore Him") I find it difficult to believe that she is being viewed as a role model for aspiring theologians. Same with her referring to the mass as a "penile procession."

She blasphemed the Church and God. This should never be honored.

It's the church that says one

It's the church that says one must have a penis in order to represent the Christ. Jesus may have been male but his Godhood is not and St. Paul himself said we are THE SAME in Christ. So since the church insists a penis-bearing person lead the mass and only a penis-bearing person, then it is the church who makes the procession as Mary Daly states it.

Yet again, someone who lashes

Yet again, someone who lashes out when they have no idea whatsoever why the Church does what She does. I suggest you learn the WHY before you presume to dictate to the Bride of Christ what She should and shouldn't do.

You show confusion over Galatians 3:28. The Church has consistently interpreted this passage to be an essential truth of the salvation message of Christianity. As the Declaration on the Question of the Admission of Women to the Ministerial Priesthood points out, "This passage does not concern ministries: It only affirms the universal calling to divine filiation, which is the same for all."

Pete, Perhaps you, too, know

Pete,

Perhaps you, too, know less about the Bible than you think. Do not forget the Pontifical Biblical Commission's conclusion that there is nothing contained anywhere in Holy Scripture that stands in the way of the ordination of women.

As a side note, why do you insist on being so hopelessly superior all the time? I can't believe you have the gall to criticize others for thinking critically when day after day you dump your personal agenda and your preconceived notions on the readers of NCR.

Pete, Can you ever think for

Pete,

Can you ever think for yourself? Knowing WHY the Church does anything doesnt mean anyone has to agree with the(lack of) logic. Keeping women from being ordained is a sin.

-Rick

Sister Hospital Chaplain

Sister Hospital Chaplain reluctantly calls in a priest because a patient insists on being anointed. As Father is going in to the room to see the patient, Sister says to him, "The only reason you can do that and I cannot is because you have a penis." And Father replied. "I always use my thumb!"

Mary Daly was out there in

Mary Daly was out there in some respects. She was a consumate practioner of the catchy sound bite before that strategy became mainstream. Some of those who practice her sound bite strategy we now call 'tea baggers'. I find some of their pictures and sound bites quite offensive and don't necessarily see why they should be honored either. They do however make some valid points and I have no difficulty recognizing that fact even though I find a lot of their presentation revolting.

Dear Mary Sotelo: Thank your

Dear Mary Sotelo: Thank your for your encouraging article. I hope you are correct that you are “but one among thousands of young Christian women and men who do not permit the flames of theological dissent to be extinguished. We are here tending the fires of hope.” At 70 years “young” I wish to be included with you “young Chrsistian women and men”. I pray that we might be one with the similar minded Moslems, Jews and others who begin their daily lives, thoughts and prayers based upon the reality that we are first and formost all together human beings and that our differences, whether of race, colour, politics or religion or nationality are not only to be respected and preserved but to be our part of the larger story .
I love the notion and your phraseology that the “flame of theological dissent” is really “tending the fires of hope”. Every once in a while the “invitation” to leave actually makes sense, or another scandal suggests that if the barrell is rotten, what chance do the apples have. I, will continue in my own little way to “tend the firse of hope”. Thank you.

Thank you, Nicole Sotelo, for

Thank you, Nicole Sotelo, for your response to the obituary of Mary Daly published in the Wall Street Journal. I am heartened to hear that Mary Daly touched your life and opened up your views of the world. While I am neither Catholic, nor a believer, I am impressed that you were influenced by Mary Daly to "live big." We need to be reminded that ideas live on and can continue to inspire others. We need people like you in all religions and in the secular world as well.

Mary Daly was one of the most

Mary Daly was one of the most influential people in my life. She helped me understand that I need to express my voice--not just for my own sake, but for the sake of the church and the world. The more we hear one another equally, share our ideas and work for justice, the greater our world will be.

Very good! I can't believe

Very good! I can't believe someone would write an article saying dissent is dying out. Now what has changed to cause the dissent to be gone? Do women have equality in the church yet? No. As long as sex makes a difference in whether we are capable of portraying Jesus, we have not done what needs to be done so dissent is not gone in this area nor others much as some would like it to be. I am glad some of the younger people understand this.

Dissent of the NCR kind is

Dissent of the NCR kind is literally dying out. The average age of its readers is well north of the social security line. The average age of its contributors is as well (except for those non-Catholic hand-picked young voices). This is on top of the fact that many NCR devotees have probably contracepted and aborted out the next generation of dissent, or support homosexual relationships which cannot reproduce.

Please be kind. Your words

Please be kind. Your words are unChristian.
This from a man in his 40's, thank you.

which is why they are as

which is why they are as anonymous as a lynch mob

But you can't argue those are

But you can't argue those are the facts...

The words aren't unkind or

The words aren't unkind or unChristian. Just insightful and challenging and not what NCR readers want to read.

I don't think dissent inside

I don't think dissent inside and outside the church has died out at all. In fact, all those people who told the truth of pedophile priests raping children, and who had the courage to speak out against every bishop in the U.S. who went along with this attrocity, that kind of courage and dissent is growing. Mary Daly lived a life so large, that legions of women worldwide learned to dissent against male supremacy in all its forms.

She so significantly opened women's minds to language and its power, she taught women to reverse the reversals... penile processions of course being created by church "fathers" who spent centuries denying women their own authentic insights and voice. Her books took away all the power the catholic church once had, women rebelled and continue to rebell against the attrocity that is the womanhating church to its core. This took courage, from a woman born in 1928. She found our foremothers who had been erased by male historians, she gave courage to legions of women who wrote our herstory, uncovered the truth of women's lives. She was adept at irony, at throwing the patriarchy right back in its face. I loved her clever language, her gift for really getting sexist men to throw temper tantrums. She exposed them for the snools they be!

The Wall Street Journal was

The Wall Street Journal was always a conservative paper. There was a time when you could read the WSJ and get a good, solid, conservative perspective - one that was respectful and valuable, even if you did not agree with it. However, since it has been taken over by Rupert Murdoch, it has gone the way of Fox News and with it any standards of fair, honest and, sometimes, even, intelligent, jouralism. I just no longer see any value to reading this paper. This saddens me.

FLAME ON, Nicole! A wonderful

FLAME ON, Nicole!
A wonderful extension of the WSJ author's original metaphor:

"We are here tending the fires of hope. We spend our days putting out the fires of sexism and racism and homophobia. And by night we carry the kindling of justice and spirituality in our hands."

You have to admit, Mary Daly was no hearth-sweeping, theological Vestal Virgin. She was in the thick of it, lobbing as many Molotov Cocktails as she could...But that was back when organized religion in general and the Roman Catholic Church in particular actually mattered and meant something to a significant proportion of people's lives. Those days are long gone.

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405274870458650457465428256393976...

I think what Charlotte Allen laments by the end of her article -and rightly so- is not that there are no more FOLLOWERS of Mary Daly, but that there are no more LEADERS of her firebranding caliber on the horizon, assuming her mantle (a cliche I'm sure Mary herself would probably despise!) and taking up the cause of professional theological dissent as have the cast of intellectual giants to whom the writer refers throughout the article.

p.s. Speaking of ideas catching fire, do you think Mary's "SIN BIG!" slogan might be a re-packaging of Augustine's original FELIX CULPA and Martin Luther's PECCA FORTITER?

I think Ms Dalys catch phrase

I think Ms Dalys catch phrase "Sin Big" really captures it all.

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