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Catholics and Mormons: a shotgun wedding
Cardinal Francis George of Chicago spoke Feb 23 at a gathering on the campus of Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah. He became the first Catholic cardinal to speak at the Church of Latter-day Saints university, speaking on "Catholics and Latter-day Saints: Partners in the Defense of Religious Freedom" as part of the Mormon school's forum series. The aim of the talk, of course, was to highlight the commonality of each religious institution's stance that marriage can only be between a man and a woman -- and to deny that gays and lesbians have a right to wed.
What struck me was what odd bedfellows Catholics and Mormons make around the issue of marriage. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints describe themselves as Christians, because they worship Christ, honor the Bible as one of the books that they use for faith formation, and they even have the word Jesus in their full name (For more info, check out this page from the official lds.org Web site). Perhaps sociologically, Mormons don't appear much different than other Christians. However, theologically they are very different.
The Roman Catholic church does not consider Mormons to be Christians. The Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith issued a statement in 2001 that declared Mormon baptisms to be invalid Christian baptisms. The statement was written under the papacy of John Paul II and was signed by then-Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, the current pope,.
Thinking back to the talk in Provo, there were many Mormons and Catholics in attendance, united around the drive to deny equal rights to gays and lesbians through marriage. It's plausible that a Mormon and a Catholic could have met at this talk, fallen in love, and gotten married themselves. What would this mean though?
There are irreconcilable differences, as noted in a document the Institute for Religious Research published in 1999. Roman Catholics believe in monotheism; the Mormon church teaches that there are many Gods. This article points out that people can even become gods and goddesses themselves in the celestial kingdom and have children that worship them. Likewise, the Mormon church teaches that the Father, Son and Holy Spirit are three separate Gods. Of course, the Roman Catholic church teaches that these three distinct persons, the Trinity, are one God.
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I have no idea how a Mormon and Catholic would raise children together or what they would teach their children about faith, theology, and marriage. In fact, if a Mormon and Catholic wanted to be married by a Catholic priest, they would follow the same ritual as a Catholic marrying a Rastafarian or an atheist -- the rite of a Catholic marrying a non-Christian. It seems fundamental that both traditions should agree on whether they are Christians before they decide who is allowed to marry and raise a family. Marriage is an intimate connection between two people, and issues like this are bound to come up.
I do want to express the caveat that I think it's phenomenal when diverse groups come together around social issues. I see strong connections among interfaith groups working on issues of economic justice. Jews, Muslims and Christians have strong theological understandings of the sin of poverty. These groups may not agree on everything, but at the very least, they can find commonalities in what they teach about the economic rights of each person.
The gathering in Provo is driven by a different agenda, one rooted in either fear or hatred of gay and lesbian people and their desire to marry. Usually, lessons from faith on ethical issues is meant to better the common good. I can't imagine the conversations between these two groups being too deep, because their theological differences would get sticky fairly quickly. The Mormon-Catholic partnership to "defend religious freedom" probably isn't meant to last. What happened in Provo was a shotgun wedding between conservative groups of Mormons and Catholics. Sooner or later, both groups will wake up from this shotgun wedding and realize that their long-term agendas about how to teach the faithful aren't meant to go together.





Strange bedfellows indeed. I
Strange bedfellows indeed. I understand that the Mormon declaration against polygamy was a change of discipline but not of theology. If so, why didn't Cardnal George point out that the Catholic Church and the Mormon Church disagree on a very fundamental issue regarding marriage? Because it would have interfered with his desire to rally the troops against gay marriage.
One man, one woman for the
One man, one woman for the Mormon's? The ones who practiced polygamy until it was outlawed for them? The ones who still have outposts of fundamentalists who practice it? They believe in one man, many women and the man is in charge of whether his wife gets to go to heaven! Give me a break! They are not the best to decide this whole marriage thing. Period!
People do not have to agree
People do not have to agree on everything to work together and I think the shotgun wedding analogy goes a little bit too far. As far as "denying" gays and lesbians the right to marry. Let's be clear that it's not Mormons or Catholics doing the "denying", but God himself. The Bible makes it very clear that homosexuality is wrong and that marriage should only be between men and women only. Leviticus 18:22 Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. Jesus said in Mark 10: 6-9, “But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” In 1 Corinthians 11:11 the apostle Paul said “Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.” Jude 1:7 “Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.” The city of Sodom is where we get the word sodomy. You also have Genesis 19:5, Deuteronomy 23:17, Isaiah 3:9, Romans 1:27, 1 Corinthians 6:9, and 1Timothy 1:10.
The quote in Leviticus is
The quote in Leviticus is accurate. However, you leave out all of the other abominations in Leviticus that you don't follow or believe. How do you explain that.
The quote in Mark as well as the one from Paul seems to destroy the unmarried cleargy as it does not allow a man to leave his mother and to "cleave to his wife" or to allow a man to be "without a women".
Giving "over to fornication" is separating sex from an emotional, caring bond. You can deny it if you like, but there are emotional and caring bonds in he homosexual community that is often the basic for their sex, which, I believe, separates it from the fornication mentioned in your quote.
Jesus ushered out much of the laws of the old testement, so why do you keep banging that drum, especially when there is so much in the old testement (and undoubtable, the new as well) that you discard. He said that one must follow the 10 commandments with an emphysis on the first two, from which all others follow. I fail to see how a loving homosexual union does not allow one to love God and his/her neighbor.
Peace and prayers on your journey.
John David
Dear anonymous,
Dear anonymous,
Just a suggestion… You might want to use care when proof-texting Scripture out of context to support your particular hard-line theological conclusions — especially that book of Leviticus. If you read some of the fine print therein, you might find yourself residing on the “abomination” list. In its entirety, it's a harsh read.
Sodom's sin is spoken of in
Sodom's sin is spoken of in Ezekiel 16 : 49 as that of in hospitality !
Aloysia - That simply isn't
Aloysia -
That simply isn't true, it is revisionist theology. There are no reputable Scripture Scholars that hold that to be the case. It has become popular because it is a more "gay friendly" interpretation. But it is not held by Scripture Scholars in any Judea-Christian tradition.
Jeff
Let's put some perspective
Let's put some perspective into reading the Bible with a literal interpretation. If we are using the Bible as a tool against gay marriage, then we must follow the Bible in all areas of life...
Leviticus 1:9 talks about burning a bull on the altar as a sacrifice to create a pleasing odor for the Lord.
Exodus 21:7 sanctions selling one's daughter into slavery.
Leviticus 15:19-24, states that no contact is allowed with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness.
Leviticus 25:44 states that I may buy slaves from the nations that are around us.
Exodus 35:2 clearly states that a neighbor working on the Sabbath should be put to death.
Leviticus 10:10 claims eating shellfish is an abomination of God.
Leviticus 20:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight, and I wear glasses.
Please, let's not use the Bible as a means of marginalizing our gay brothers and sisters. Jesus welcomed all to the table.
The Bible also makes it very
The Bible also makes it very clear that we should stone to death a girl who is not a virgin... I wonder if we should read the entire Bible literally?
Deuteronomy 22
20 If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the girl's virginity can be found, 21 she shall be brought to the door of her father's house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done a disgraceful thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father's house. You must purge the evil from among you.
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The story of Sodom and
The story of Sodom and Gomorrah is not about homosexuality at all. It is about the lack of hospitality to strangers! It is interesting that it was Ok for God to authorise offering the virgin daughters to the men, for virtual gang rape of her . Should we therefore think it is Ok to offer up our daughter in this way too?
Nowhere in the Bible does it talk about love relationship between same sex couples. The text usually chosen refers to the 'Arsenacoiti' ie Male Temple Prostitutes.
Leviticus also regards, the sin of gluttony, wearing of clothes with mixed fibres as equally sinful but I don't see churches barring fat people who wear polycotton shirts.
Basically, you can argue almost anything by selective use of scripture and misusing it .
Imposing one's religious
Imposing one's religious definition of marriage on people of different (or no) faiths is not 'defending religious freedom.' That is simply a lie.
It is no more nor less than the imposition of a religous belief by the state.
Particularly ironic considering that both Catholics and Mormons emigrated (to America and to Utah) to escape religious persecution.
And now they've united to engage in religious persecution of those who would ask that their same-sex marriages be recognized by the state.
Well said. 'Interesting
Well said. 'Interesting that religious persecution is most vigorously applied to others by those who claim to be "religious". Human nature is very strange indeed, especially when people band together solely based on who or what they are against. Social psychology gives some interesting and unflattering insights on that kind of behavior.
"It is no more nor less than
"It is no more nor less than the imposition of a religous belief by the state."
Really? There is a truth physically written into the human body which has nothing to do with religion. Sexual difference dictates the reality of human sexual expression by the way we were designed to function. Male and female bodies are designed specifically for the opposite sex. That union is the only one that embodies the fullness of human sexual expression and it is the only one that contributes to the continuation of the species and the stability of society. This is the secular reason that marriage has always been protected seen differently than all other relationships by civil law.
One can play games with scriptural interpretation but it is much harder to argue physical reality as designed by our Creator.
"fear or hatred of gay and
"fear or hatred of gay and lesbian people and their desire to marry"
My God, that is some succint but a little off the point description of the theology of marriage and human body as taught by the Holy Mother Church.
Since no one is forcing the
Since no one is forcing the Catholic church or the Morman Church to marry gays and lesbians, I fail to see how uniting to deny them the right to marry can be considered protecting freedom of religion. There are religions that allow gays and lesbians to marry, what about their freedom of religion? This is just another example that "freedom of religion" is often code for legislating laws of one religion into the laws of society, it has nothing to do with freedom of religion, nothing at all.
Oh please! Spare us all your
Oh please! Spare us all your drivel about "God, Himself, denying gays and lesbians the right to marry" You hypocrite! You have no idea what the mind of God thinks on this subject or any other subject. There is ONLY one thing that Christ could not tolerate and that is the hypocrite. You are preaching a theology of hatred instead of love, of exclusion instead of inclusion, and of disenfranchisement and marginalization. Cardinal George should be ashamed of himself for getting into bed with the Mormons, who are very good at EXCLUDING and are really not Christians at all. This is shameful and the bigots who preach hatred in the name of Christ or God are committing violent and hateful acts against a group of people who are different. You can[t call yourself disciples of Jesus if you behave this way.
Perfect FIT: a RED HAT
Perfect FIT:
a RED HAT drumming up business and support in a RED STATE!
http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/belief/2010/feb/26/mormon-cathol...
UT SINT UNUM? May they all be
UT SINT UNUM?
May they all be ONE?
When it comes to the ECUMENISM envisioned by Vatican II, one might observe that Cardinal George et al. are definitely marching to a hermeneutic of RUPTURE and DISCONTINUITY.
http://www.deseretnews.com/article/700011507/LDS-Catholics-must-defend-r...
BLEST be the ties [of hatred] that bind!
While I see the sense of all
While I see the sense of all the objections made to this "ad hoc" partnership, I can't help thinking of the oft-spoken words of Blessed John XXIII: seek what unites; leave aside the things that divide; trust in history, the great teacher of life.
"The gathering in Provo is
"The gathering in Provo is driven by a different agenda, one rooted in either fear or hatred of gay and lesbian people and their desire to marry." So anyone who disagrees with Mike Sweitzer-Beckman is held captive by either fear or hatred. What a dangerous psychological condition this author seems to have.
Might it also suggest that
Might it also suggest that this author views disagreements as necessarily being rooted in fear or hatred, because he fears and hates those with whom he disagrees?
This is not the only "odd
This is not the only "odd bedfellows" meeting of late. Perhaps the most outspoken pugnacious conservative member of the RC episcopal bench, +Chaput of Denver lectured at a Southern Baptist university recently. Incredible as it may sound to the average John and Mary Catholic, he trashed JFK as the author or at least the original agent of anti-faith secularism in the public square.
He then called for an alliance of all arch-conservative denominations to smite the dragon of secularism and achieve a diminution of separation of church and state to the extent such separation keeps "traditional values" from a controlling position in public life. Now, most Baptists in the southern USA don't even regard Roman Catholics as Christian and even when they do, they dispute core theological beliefs which are irreconcilable between the faiths. Our popular culture is indeed toxic in many ways, but is an alliance of RC reactionaries with their Baptist Christian or cultic(Mormon)counterparts anything but a gathering of highly political activists? It's certainly not a group discussion on the Papal ministry or role. Politics a mile wide; faith a convenient veneer.
The reason they can agree on
The reason they can agree on marriage as only between a man and a women is because conjugal relations were not only defined in the New Covenant or in the New Testament writing. They are part of Natural Law which arises from the Eternal Law. Conjugal relations only between a man and a women are "written on the hearts of men". Jesus did not have to define it, the Ten Commandments did not even have to define it or lay it down, it is part of the Christian anthropological precepts.
For a list of what is natural to man, or what he can know without the New Testament, refer to the Ten Commandments.
Do we need a "list if what is
Do we need a "list if what is natural to man" to know that we are all different, all created in the image likeness of God, and that for some of humanity it is natural to love the same sex. Why do we create situations where we make some of humanity on a higher level than the rest of humanity. We are all equal and deserve the right to love whomever we are moved to love. Jesus came that we might have life to the fullest - not some of us, all of us.
Mr. Sweitzer-Beckman states,
Mr. Sweitzer-Beckman states, "the gathering in Provo is driven by a different agenda, one rooted in either fear or hatred of gay and lesbian people and their desire to marry,". Of course, he gives no evidence that the religious groups in question, Roman Catholics and Mormons have a feeling of "fear or hatred" directed toward gay and lesbian people. But, in our society today, all someone has to claim is "hatred" and that is enough to render arguments moot. In other words, if some group is advocating a position that I disagree with, all I have to do to shut them up is to claim that they are promulgating a message of "hatred".
It never occurs to people like Mr. Sweitzer-Beckman, and others, that there are some people who actually take Church teaching seriously. It never occurs to them that people of good will might actually disagree with a modernist notion of homosexual marriage (a concept that has not been heard of in 2000 or more years). It never occurs to them that there might be real and carefully considered reasons that folks might disagree with their agenda.
No, the consensus represented by folks like Mr. Sweitzer-Beckman and others on the "progressive" side, seems to be that, if one is thoughtful and open-minded, "compassionate" and intelligent, then one must always support the movement toward gay and lesbian marriage (as an example). Only people who are fearful and hateful, close-minded, mean-spirited and, generally, uncaring and evil, could ever really believe in denying gay and lesbians their "right to wed" (I would love to see where that right is enumerated in the Constitution, but save that for another time).
It's such a shame that the "progressives" are so close-minded and hateful that they cannot, or will not, respect the right of others to disagree and debate with them without also calling them names in the hopes of silencing that very debate.
Mr. Green, Your responses to
Mr. Green,
Your responses to articles in the NCR have always caught my attention. You are very articulate and always seem to be able to invite trust in the church. I do not experience you (through your writing) as a person who is fearful or hates anyone. However, I do experience you as an apologist with amazing skill; so amazing is your skill, and so deep your commitment to the church that I think you cannot hear the real pain that people feel. My friends who are homosexuals have certainly experienced hatred and fear, directed to and inspired by themselves. My friend Mike told me with tears in his eyes that most of his life he felt like garbage. But he had a conversion experience: in his heart he felt Jesus saying to him, “I love you, I created you just as you are, I died for you along with all those people who keep trying to tell you that you are trash, I love you, be free – to be your best self using all your gifts for love and life, be at peace.” Karl Rahner SJ said that in the future people will need to be mystics. They will need to be able to hear and trust the voice of God in their own hearts. I trust the words of God to Mike and the words of Jesus to me “Love God with your whole heart… and your neighbor as yourself.” I feel that the church is becoming a stumbling block rather than a help in loving my brothers and sisters. I think naming the strong and pervasive feelings of fear and hate is not meant to shut down discussion. It is meant to place the conversation on the cliff where it has climbed to. My guess is that you will claim it does not belong on a cliff, that following church teachings puts us on more solid ground. I would challenge that you have an open hearted, (not just an open minded) conversation with a gay Catholic and see what you can learn. Listen before speaking on this issue. Peace Christa
"The gathering in Provo is
"The gathering in Provo is driven by a different agenda, one rooted in either fear or hatred of gay and lesbian people and their desire to marry."
Mike, just keep telling yourself that and maybe someday it will become true. Never mind the volumes of theology that defend the Church's position that Marriage as a sacrament can only happen between a man and a woman. It has nothing to do with fear or hatred. Why read when you can write?
I could perhaps be convinced
I could perhaps be convinced that it isn't homophobic hatred if it was only the denial of religiously-blessed marriages which the gathering sought to
address.
However, when it seeks to deny secular marriage (read "outside of ANY religion") and then wraps that denial in the specious cloak of religous freedom that's different.
That's the same sort of bigotry that denied people of color access to housing because their presence in the neighborhood would "affect property values."
I think it is wonderful to
I think it is wonderful to seek out commonality of good religious people. Catholics and Mormons love gay and lesbian people, they just don't condone calling their decision to unite as "marriage".
Marriage defined as a
Marriage defined as a Sacrament is supported by traditional church teaching, but that is not the question. The question is whether the state has a right to define marriage in a different manner. Yes, the state does.
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The author, a graduate of
The author, a graduate of JSTB in Berkeley, is another example of why that school should be shut down. It's graduates are harming the Church.
Why is the issue of "gay
Why is the issue of "gay marriage" always framed as denying equal rights to gay people? The opposition to "gay marriage" comes from the belief that this concept is contrary to God's law. You can't deny something to a person who has no right to it in the first place. Or maybe I should say, has no right to his version of it. Gay people are not really denied the ability to marry; many of them are married. Whether that is a good idea is questionable but it can't be denied that plenty of gay men are married to women. So the discrimination argument fails. Not all gay people are exactly the same. There is variation in that subgroup.
The bottom line though is that the concept of "gay marriage" is a false concept. It is an oxymoron & it is clearly against the law of God. This is the reason it must be opposed. Opposition to this concept does not constitute discrimination against gay people.
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