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Speaking by, for, and with "the help"
It's August. The close of this year's round of conventions has freed hotels for vacationers seeking respit from the every day. Folks at home on rainy summer afternoons are off to the movies. Both hotels and movies may bring up issues we'd rather not recall.
"The Help," a feature film based on Kathryn Stockett's first novel of the same name, snaps into Technicolor focus the fuzzy black and white memories of 1960s racism in the United States. The theme is difficult -- it took Stockett around 61 attempts before she landed a book agent -- but it is as true today as it was 50 years ago.
In this movie it is black women working as house maids -- "the help" of Jackson, Miss. -- who are maltreated and abused. Their children face the same fate.
The few among them who risked speaking out rescued the others and brought them a sense of dignity they well deserved.
Think things have changed? Think again. There may be no more "white" and "colored" water fountains, at least in the United States, but there are residual attitudes here and elsewhere. Too many people see "different" as license to discriminate and exploit. Hotel workers, as world news reports, are particularly vulnerable.
In the global context, abusers can be found among the powerful men of means, and those most vulnerable to abuse are women and children of any color, ethnicity, or nationality.
Abuse comes in many forms, and the Internet is an abuser's playpen where weirdness combines with commerce. The back page of the Village Voice newspaper has morphed into the Web site www.backpage.com, offering a smorgasboard of "services" in the U.S., Canada, Ireland, the United Kingdom, Australia, New Zealand, and Mexico.
There are lots of "escort" Web sites. Many of the young people in the electronic meat market are really children -- young teenagers who ran away from home, looking for a better life but ended up raped and beaten by pimps into submission. They are sold and resold in the hotel rooms conventioneers vacated for those vacationers.
Want numbers? The California non-profit Children of the Night says international relief organizations estimate there are 300,000 child prostitutes in the United States. No one doubts it is a multi-billion dollar industry.
What to do?
In the most perfect of worlds anyone with any leverage at all will sit up and take notice of the 6,000-member U.S. Federation of the Sisters of Saint Joseph, whose delegates met at St. Louis' Millennium Hotel in July. At their request the hotel's management signed the six-point "Code of Conduct for the Protection of Children from Sexual Exploitation in Travel and Tourism."
There are 1,030 Code of Conduct signers in 42 countries, but only six -- including Delta Airlines, Amazon Tours, the Carlson and Hilton Hotels, and the American Society of Travel Agents -- are in the United States. It is not easy to move a corporation, but women religious managed to add the St. Louis Millennium Hotel to the list. The "help" gave the Josephite planning committee a round of applause when they visited them in the basement. (See the story here.)
When the Leadership Conference of Women Religious met in the Garden Grove, Calif., Hyatt-Regency in August, they asked management to consider signing on as well. (See that story here.)
The fact is, women religious are more sensitive than most in recognizing abuse, perhaps because in other contexts they have been undervalued, vilified, and exploited themselves. Over the past 50 years or so however, those who risked speaking out rescued others, bringing them the sense of dignity they deserve.
Now the tide has permanently turned. Women religious, increasingly unafraid to speak on behalf of others, now defend themselves as well. At that convention in that hotel, the Federation of Sisters of Saint Joseph unanimously stood in support of Josephite Sr. Elizabeth Johnson, whose academic work has suffered calumny.
Child trafficking? Misrepresentation and no dialogue? Same cloth, different cut: an underlying lack of respect for the person.
Few among their angry critics will argue against the sisters' call for sanity regarding child prostitution.
Many will say they've lost their minds in supporting Johnson.(You know the chant: they are a bunch of feminists, let them die out. They have gotten rather uppity. Who are they to speak this way? Who, in fact, are they to even think?)
When you place these three stories side by side, they are remarkably similar.
The maids of Jackson, Miss., were powerless against the disrespect and exploitation of their employers. The trafficked children and the women of the church -- especially the women religious -- were powerless as well.
Until they chose to speak.
[Phyllis Zagano is senior research associate-in-residence at Hofstra University and author of several books in Catholic Studies. Her book Women & Catholicism will be published by Palgrave-Macmillan in 2011.]
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Thank you (again) Phyllis
Thank you (again) Phyllis
Phyllis, Speak, Phyllis.
Phyllis,
Speak, Phyllis. Keep Speaking. Keep the Spirit flowing through you. Youre the best!
Right on! You have hit the
Right on! You have hit the nail on the head! Voices must be heard! Action assumed! Systemic change demanded!
Thank you, Phyllis. Keep up
Thank you, Phyllis. Keep up the great work you are doing.
Wonderful connections made
Wonderful connections made here. Thanks for a thought provoking column.
An interesting coincidence of
An interesting coincidence of timing...Sr. Elizabeth and "The Help". The Josephites have always served "the help" in its mission.
Thanks for commenting on "The
Thanks for commenting on "The Help." I just saw the film, and it was a springboard for a discussion group among fellow educators. I am old enough to remember the civil rights' movement. When I first started teaching during the 1960's, I was so idealistic (which I think was good). As the years passed and the legislation for expanding civil rights and banning Jim Crow passed as well, I saw increased monetary funding for schools to compensate for the "disadvantaged urban youth." More opportunities (Affirmative Action) allowed minorities to escalate to more occupations----all good.
I am saddened, however, that despite all the billions of dollars spent to assist minorities, we are still plagued by their very high school drop-out rates, illegitimate births, unemployment welfare benefits, high incarceration rates, etc. I know all the reasons people give for these unfortunate conditions, but somewhere, someone must address these "undiscussable" facts.
I look forward to the
I look forward to the publicatioon of Women in Catholicism, hoping that, like this column, it doesn't pull its punches.
Women religious are more
Women religious are more sensitive to abuse? Snort. They abuse too!
This article was a pleasure
This article was a pleasure to read . . . until the author started with the "poor little sisters" p.c. s..tuff. For heaven's sake, give it a rest! Of course the sisters should be praised when they do great works for those who are exploited, but please don't connect the two groups.
The sisters' problems are of their own making. For years many of them have continued to drift further and further away from Church teachings and to deliberately provoke conflict in the Church. Now they are the blind leading the blind. They can't even see what they have become!
Sally D.
Great, great article.
Great, great article. Fantastic links too!
And why, why, why, didn't more NCR Catholics comment on this article? Why were (mostly impoverished)"the help" once again forgetten, even in this column?
Bravo to the Sisters of St. Joseph, and the Leadership Conference of Religious Sisters, for standing up for these often "poorest of the poor", to use Mother Theresa's phrase. The new CODE OF CONDUCT...genius!
Kidnapped, run-away, and/or drugged into prostitution, what greater hell can there be?
I know we've had a DEPRESSION ECONOMY, HEALTH CARE CRISIS, ANOTHER WAR--LIBYA, AND NOW EARTHQUAKE/HURRICANE ISSUES, but what about the shame-ridden, traumatized, sexual slaves? THERE ARE BILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD, AND THEY ARE ALL PART OF OUR FAMILY.
Thanks for the courage of
Thanks for the courage of this article, Phyllis. The connections you made between "The Help," the U.S. Federation of the Sisters of Saint Joseph, the Leadership Conference of Women Religious, women and children are powerful to the core. In many ways, "The Help," explored the powerful effects of finding one's voice. Without a doubt, it is in the finding of one's voice individually and collectively that gives us the courage to challenge global abuse in all its forms!
Message to the Sisters: YOU
Message to the Sisters:
YOU ARE KIND!!!!
YOU ARE SMART!!!!
YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!
Somehow, I missed this
Somehow, I missed this article and so glad I researched to find it. Thank you Phyllis for reminding us of "many things." I have good intentions to see the movie, but even more so now that you have mentioned it's theme. And the abuse continues when women accept the patriarchical "looking-down-on" syndrome that is so very prevalent in church, society and the world, as exhibited by the commentator above who calls him or herself - Sally Forth. Perhaps some still chose to live in denial. Give it a rest, indeed Sally - and let the abuse continue by saying and doing nothing. Here, I will lend you my own blinders to my own weaknesses - they are well worn.
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